Life Inside

Yesterday we did maternity/family pictures. I highly recommend to women who are pregnant to have maternity pictures done. I know they are a little costly, but you could even have family or friends do them.

With a growing belly, hormones changing every day and many of the other things that go along with pregnancy, sometimes it's hard to feel sexy in your own skin. Sometimes it's hard to look at yourself in the mirror as each day, each week you are getting a little bigger. Let's face it, things change and shift when you become pregnant....and they don't always go back to where they belong. So feeling comfortable and sexy in your own skin, may not come as often as it used to.

Yesterday, I felt so incredibly sexy, beautiful, fierce, glamorous, all of the things you can imagine. I could have taken thousands of pictures. I didn't want the day to end. It was an hour or so of just focusing on my beautiful growing belly. Of the child growing inside of me. I have never felt more beautiful. I had my hair and make up done by a sweet talented friend who also did our pictures. She captured so many moments I will treasure forever. 

I recommend doing maternity pictures because 9 months may seem like eternity when we are expecting but in reality it is only a blip of our life. They are just a few months out of our entire lifetime. I love looking back on past maternity pictures we had done and am always mesmerized at how beautiful growing a little human being inside of you actually is. Pregnancy is truly a gift from Heaven and it is a part of my life I will cherish forever.

Blessings in Disguise

“Blessings” by Laura Story

We pray for blessings 
We pray for peace 
Comfort for family, protection while we sleep 
We pray for healing, for prosperity 
We pray for Your mighty hand to ease our suffering 
All the while, You hear each spoken need 
Yet love is way too much to give us lesser things 

(Chorus)
'Cause what if your blessings come through raindrops 
What if Your healing comes through tears 
What if the thousand sleepless nights are what it takes to know You're near 
What if trials of this life are Your mercies in disguise 

We pray for wisdom 
Your voice to hear 
We cry in anger when we cannot feel You near 
We doubt your goodness, we doubt your love 
As if every promise from Your Word is not enough 
And all the while, You hear each desperate plea 
And long that we'd have faith to believe 

Chorus

When friends betray us 
When darkness seems to win 
We know the pain reminds this heart 
That this is not, this is not our home 

Chorus

What if my greatest disappointments 
Or the aching of this life 
Is the revealing of a greater thirst this world can't satisfy 
What if trials of this life 
The rain, the storms, the hardest nights 
Are your mercies in disguise

I heard this song on the way to work this morning and was almost in tears. I have heard it multiple times, but the words really jumped out at me today. We are so busy in lives worrying from one day to the next, one hour to the next that we don’t stop and listen, we don’t stop and think what if these little things in life we think are obstacles are really God’s blessings in disguise. Like the cliché saying, “God closes one door and opens another.” If we stay positive and look beyond the negative, maybe we would see God’s blessings a little clearer. We wouldn’t question Him. We wouldn’t worry or fear as much.

My husband and I have gone through our struggles and are hopefully nearing the end of them. Sometimes we both lose our faith, if only for just a second, and begin  to think why is this happening? Why is God letting this happen to us? And then I stop and remember “God does everything for a reason”. It may not be what we hoped for, what we prayed for, but God knows what He is doing. He can see our future, farther into our lives than we can. He knows exactly what is best for us. I pray for more understanding of why things happen, but sometimes they are just not meant to be. Sometimes we don’t have to understand. Sometimes what we pray for isn’t what God has intended. I have to remember that sometimes, especially when things don’t go my way. What God does for us, should be enough.

We need to stop trying to change the things God has in mind for us. Instead, we need to trust and believe in Him more. God wants us to trust in Him, stop trying to run our own lives. I want to let go of struggling and trying to fix things and let Him take over. He knows what is best for us and only wants us to trust in Him. I know I will live a happier life if I just hand it all over to Him and surrender, let God take control.

New Year's Resolution

My New Year’s resolution this year is to be more care free. To not worry so much, basically to not give a damn about the little things, the things I cannot change and about the things that do not directly affect me. Also to forget the past.

I worry too much about the future, I dwell on the past, about the “what would have happened if I would have did this” or I shouldn't have done that or I regret that. I don’t live and focus on the present like I should. I cannot change the things in the past. I know this and I still continue to relive those moments. I've made mistakes, lots of them, but they have made me who I am today and I should just accept that. I should be grateful for all of those small moments that have taught me some of life’s greatest lessons. I don’t want to grow old and be so worried about every little thing. I need to sit back, relax and enjoy life. Enjoy those around me, the ones I love, forget the ones who don’t treat me right and move on. Life is too short to worry so darn much. I would be so much more stress free and less tense if I let go a little, just lived in the present, in the moment at that exact time. I don’t want to live in the past anymore. I don’t want to worry about the future so much (hard to do with small children), but I would like to take each day at a time. You never know what is going to happen each day, hour, minute or second, why worry? Take each day God has given me and live it to the fullest, like there’s no tomorrow. I feel like the majority of my life is consumed with how we are going to make it to the next day, the next week, the next paycheck. Life happens. There are so many less fortunate people in the world and I should be grateful for what we have. Others have to worry about so much more, I should be grateful. I want to be happier for my children. I want to be stress free for them and my husband. That is why I am letting go and letting God. If I trust in Him and let Him handle our future, trust in Him to help me let go of the past and to just focus on the present, I will be a much happier person, wife, mother, daughter, sister, friend, etc.

I am ready for this New Year and what joy and happiness it will bring our family. I am ready to be happier and more care free! I am ready to live in the present and just enjoy life!

Happy New Year, everyone!

Almost 32 Weeks

Going on 32 weeks pregnant with Baby C. I don't know how much farther my tummy will be able to grow, but it always seems to find a way. I feel at any moment it will explode. She is weighing approximately 4lbs 2oz (2 weeks ahead of schedule)!! Other than that, I feel great! This has been the best pregnancy by far. I believe most of it has to do with the workout routine I have kept up with. Out of the three, this pregnancy I have kept my fitness level up the most. I am still doing Insanity (insane I know), but I take it easy, I modify some of the things I can't do, rest when I need to, drink tons of water and breathe. I do it because I love how I feel afterwards and during. I do it because I want to be healthy for my unborn baby and my family. I don't take pregnancy as a handicap. I'm pregnant, not disabled. I have learned this the hard way from my past two pregnancies. I now know what I am fully capable of doing while pregnant but I also know my limits. I'm really not looking forward to having to take off for 6 weeks-post c-section to recover, as I know I will lost quite a bit of muscle but it is all worth it and what I need. Hoping some of this muscle I still have will stick around.

A part of me is so ready for Baby C to be here; a part of me is so nervous and scared. My husband is starting nursing school in a few weeks and will continue to work. I will have 6 weeks maternity leave. I know he will help when he can and family will be able to help some, but having three kids to myself (one newborn) while recovering from a c-section really doesn't sound all appealing right now. Actually, it scares the living daylights out of me. And I know I will cherish every moment of it. While looking forward to nap times and bed times (with the older two).

 

30 weeks

 

31 weeks

We are so ready to meet the little bundle of joy tucked away in my belly. It will be here before we know it!

Happy Birthday, My Sweet Baby Girl

Happy Birthday to my sweet baby girl. You have brightened our lives with so much joy, happiness, laughter, tears and love. Three years ago, you were so small and fragile and I didn’t know how much you would change my life. I couldn’t comprehend how much joy such a small human being could bring to my life. I never understood how much a mother could love their child until I had you. Three years ago, you fit perfectly on my chest as you slept. You were so helpless and looked up at me with those big dark eyes. Now you sleep in your big girl bed, in your big girl panties (with no diaper-you are so proud of yourself and so are we) ;). When you stand, you are up past my hips and still look up at me with your now hazel eyes. I hope and pray you will always look up to me. I hope to be the role model you need; I hope to never let you down. It amazes me to see how ambitious, independent and smart you are at only 3 years old. I know you will grow up to be a strong, intelligent, courageous, beautiful woman. It brings a mixture of emotions to my heart to watch you grow up. I want so bad for you to be my baby girl, who needs me to do everything for you, but as I watch you grow into the little independent girl that you are, I know you need to do some things on your own because that is just who you are. I am so proud of the little girl you have become, though you are only three years old (almost-2days!!), you seem so much older. Sometimes I have to stop myself and say, “She is only 3.” I love that you still want to be held and carried sometimes; you don’t know how happy this makes me. Tonight you asked me to sing you the lullaby song and I wanted to cry. I love the little moments like these we have together, just you and me. I hold them so very close to my heart and will cherish them forever. I pray you will always have time to spend with me and hope you will want to. Don’t grow up too fast for your momma’s sake. 

You will forever be my baby girl. I love you with all of my heart and to the moon and back times infinity, baby girl. 

Love,

Mommy